Yeah sorry about that
It was a break up. And I guess I would love to know whats coming.... but also why it happened... how it happened. I was so much in love...
Thankyou for that.
Okay you are not alone when it comes to r/ships and break ups
i filled up half of our ocean with tears from my breakups lol, it was hard at the time and i didnt understand why either
i thought if you loved someone they would love you back and everything would be fine.
You are at a learning time in your r/ships, we have karmic learning r/ships and we have soul mate r/ships on a soul level of love and trust, and of course there are some people who choose to be on their own after many r/ship break ups and find they were mean to be on their own as they didnt need anyone in their life to make it complete or happy and that they are content doing whatever they please in life without a partner and at my dinosaur age i am one of theose people
Try not to take break ups to heart, i know it hurts you in the heart but dont take it personally, you were simply trying to love the wrong person who wasnt right for you and theres nothing wrong with you, r/ships will come as far as they are meant to for whatever reason when the r/ship ends so does the lesson on that karmic level.
We need to ask ourselves this, did i FEEL loved and appreciated or did i FEEL the r/ship was very one sided??? there are many questions we need to ask ourselves in reality, when we believe we are in love we dont always see or feel what is really going on, we shut our eyes to things that are signals or signs to us but we dont want to believe them because at that time we really do believe we were in love with that person.
As we grow with our r/ship lessons and if we are willing to learn from each r/ship about ourselves and others then we will understand more why we have had a certain expereince with a person, we are totally responsible for who we allow into our lives and bring into our lives as a partner, lover, friend each person is a lesson to us until we graduate from the necessary karmic lessons we have chosen before we come here to have, and know what we want and what we dont want.
When we are ready to recieve the right person into our lives if it is meant to be for us as an individual,the Universe sets up that meeting, time and place, now a soul mate r/ship on a soul level of love and trust is one that will last.... we attract our soul mate in with our energy, and visa versa, those two energies blend in as one and two people become one on a soul level.
yet allow each other to be their own individual.
You may have many lessons yet or you may not it all depends on what you have chosen before you came here.... r/ships open us up to the truth of ourselves in every way that is why we have them and that is why they are necessary for some poeple more than others, my mum and dad met and my dad knew mum was going to be his wife, and his soulmate so 59 years later until my dad passed over they have been together and they loved each other very much....so you see some souls do not need to have karmic learning r/shps because they have worked through all their karmic r/ships in past lives so in this life time mum and dad were meant to meet at an early age and just be together from there on.
Every karmic learning lesson we are meant to have is perfect for our learning and growth and for the growth of our soul.
I learned from mine a looooooong time ago, and it took my many years to learn what i was meant to for myself and about myself, my faults, my weaknesses, my strengths, my insecurities, my doubts, my fears, everything i needed to learn for myself came through my karmic r/ships and they have made me the person i am today, secure, confident, independant, happy and content within to be how i want to be, it has taken me nearly a lifetime to learn that i dont need a man in my life to be happy or complete i can be all those things myself and i can do what i like when i like as alot of my partners were control freaks and worse.
Everyone is different as individuals so just go with the flow, meet girls as friends first, give yourself time to get to know what is underneath what you see on the outside, a persons true personality is something they cannot hide, so give yourself time to trust what you feel as real or false with a person, time shows us what we need to know and see about a person.
You arent going to miss out but i do feel you will want to be as you need to be with a person and feel comfortable being yourself which is the best way i feel just be yourself the right one will love you for the person you really are and you will discover that for yourself, you do have alot to look forward to in life and lots of exciting adventures will come your way so enjoy your life to the fullest and dont focus on just r/ships they come into your life anyway when its time in divine timing i hope that has helped you to understand a bit better about r/ships you will be fine