Hi AmeliaalwiHi there,
I am new to this forum.i just have a complicated problem with my boyfriend.he wanted to finish things between us but still want to be my best friend.can you please give me vision of what was going on between us or whether any chance we still together.what about my career whether I can get better job sooner.
Thank you so much and really appreciate your help.
Hi missperfectoo7to Jazz
I just thought I would add that I have done just his. Broke up with my boyfriend and stayed his mate, we hung around together in the same group. It was hard. I watched him pick up girls, and my heart broke. Then I didnt go out with them for a weekend and he picked up one of my so called best friends hmm. I was told in the most blunt way, and it hurt. I also did some stupid things in this time, that I would not normally do, that just were not me. This was to show that I didnt care, but I did. I was breaking inside.
I would wonder what you will get out of being just best mates? What does being best mates actually mean?? Will you both end up having a relationship without the commitment? Does that suit you and him? Dont let yourself be used. You might just miss the next big thing that is on its way ;)
Just remember if it works for you, that is great. It did for me for a while. XX
Hi ameliaalwihi jazz and all,
thank you so much for your reply. he is became a different person since he met his big family.he were in good relationship and we were pretty serious as we are not teenagers.he told me that he thinks we just scare to see a future as he had failure in previous relationship. he told me that because of our big diversities it will be hard for us in the future. he told me he wants to focus on his career and he doens't even think about another girl. he told me he just not 100% sure about something and i dont know what is that. he still keep calling me but we not meet as often as before.i feel he still loves me but he got pushed by his family to choose a girl from same background, that was he told me.
this is really hard for me, im in uncertainty situation
Thats it Chris ;) I hope she doesnt hang on tooooooooooooo long waiting for him to change but its her choice if she does we eventually move on when we have been seen in 3d what we cant see in other ways xxxDo not believe in him, but believe in yourself. Real happiness comes from within.
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