You are welcome Alfie take each day as it comes, the future takes care of itself regardless of how much we worry, stress over, fear, or get upset about life not being very kind to us when we have been kind to others, love, happiness and joy come to those who have been a loving, honest, sincere, hard working, loving parent to the ones they love yet have been terribly hurt in the heart.
Everything we are deserving of in life comes to us in Divine Timing, life here on this Earth plane is a process of learning and growth (if we choose to learn the many valuable lessons life will throw at us Negative and Positive)
Everything that is meant to be for us will come into our lives in the way and time that experience is meant to happen for us.
When we are going through a bad time we need to make peace with ourselves within it may seem hard to do but it can be done once we can be at peace within ourselves and we can do that by letting go of constant negative thoughts about ourselves or others we will start to focus on the positive we still have in our lives and be thankful for what we do have that so many do not.
You have a child which is a precious gift to you to focus on to make sure your child is emotionally coping with Mum and Dad not being together and not being mature enough to understand the reason why the parents aren't living together.
Make plans to go to different fun place together where there are other children to play with too, have a happy day every time you and your child are together and will grow up with those happy memories of having fun with Dad, children grow up so quickly and the one thing you want for your child is to say about you both as a mature adult is I had a Great Dad and Mum who loved me, they were both there for me to guide me throughout life and I had a happy childhood regardless of any situation between you and your partner.
We have to put children first and their feelings we are big enough and old enough to deal with our hurts so it doesn't affect our children it is not healthy for a couple who do not get to be constantly fighting and arguing in front of a child/children it can do a lot of emotional damage for that child to carry no child should have to carry a heavy burden, sadness, confusion or hurt, from what they see or hear from their parents who don't get on it is a much better situation if two people are separated so they can still be a good loving parent there for their child without all the bickering and unpleasantness a child has to hear or see, they can go to counselling if they wish to so they both can be helped through the situation and if there is love and hope still there between two people and they are still in love with each other then there is hope for that r/ship to be worked out so both partners have a better understanding of each other.
We also need to face the truth about a r/ship never working out regardless of how much we try it is a very hard emotion to deal with but it is a fact of life for many people if we try to live with a person who does not love us and isn't in love with us then we are living our lives to a false happiness and not allowing ourselves to experience what we can have that is meant to be for us but that is our choice to hang on until eventually everything crumbles or see the truth in reality and allow ourselves to move on from that experience taking the wisdom we have learned with us into the future so we can make better and wiser choices and decisions for ourselves in the future knowing what we don't want anymore from past hurts that haven't been our fault and what we do want for our happiness.
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