The man who left you was not worthy of your love and kindness, I know it is hard to be going through what you are now emotionally but when you get past this and you will, you will see he did you a great favour for your own good.
This man will go from woman to woman to find the security he needs for himself, his own selfish needs and for some one to do for him what he isn't capable of doing for himself.
You are a very loving giving person but you do not give yourself enough "Self Worth" confidence or love yourself enough to except only what you are so deserving of and that is real happiness and love with a person who respects you and wants you for all your lovely qualities to love and look after not be there for their needs and wants only.
I feel deep down you have felt at times there was something missing and we close our eyes off to what is missing because while we are doing for others we feel loved and wanted so we feel that is enough for us and I feel that is how it was for you in that r/ship I could be wrong but I trust what I am being told by my guides as they know the truth of what really goes on.
You do have a lot of work to do on yourself so you can move on into the future feeling stronger, happier, more confident, with a new self worth and love for yourself.
All r/ships will come as far as they are meant to for what ever reason, don't take it personally because we choose who we bring into our lives as a potential partner as lessons to learn as this r/ship was not on a soul level but one of a karmic learning lesson for you and for him but I doubt if he will learn anything from what he is doing, but women that are stronger, more confident, and have self worth and no insecurities about themselves will see right through him, the less stronger women will fall for his falseness and then find out what he is about eventually he will end up on his own wondering why women do not want anything to do with him but they are his lessons to learn..
Back to you I want you to focus now on you and put your self first and what you would like to be doing in your life that brings you the most happiness and joy, write a list of all the things you would like to do for yourself.
Write a list of all your insecurities, doubts and fears that you have about yourself or the future, then I want you to give them all to God and the Angels and trust that better and happier experiences are waiting up ahead for you.
Please say this affirmation or put one to your own words..
I AM THE MOST PRECIOUS AND LOVED CHILD OF GOD.
I TRUST THAT I AM ALWAYS GUIDED AND LOOKED AFTER.
I AM MOST WORTHY OF LOVE.
I DESERVE TO BE LOVED.
I GIVE ALL MY FEARS TO GOD AND THE ANGELS.
I LOOK FORWARD TO NEW EXPERIENCES IN THE FUTURE.
I AM EXCITED ABOUT THE FUTURE.
I WILLINGLY AND LOVINGLY LET GO OF MY PAST R/SHIP.
I ALLOW MYSELF TO BE MORE CONFIDENT, LOVE MYSELF MORE, AND GIVE MYSELF MORE SELF WORTH.
I AM DESERVING OF ONLY WHAT IS RIGHT FOR MY HIGHEST OF GOOD.
I FEEL AT PEACE NOW WITH MYSELF.
I FIND HAPPINESS WITHIN MYSELF READY TO START A NEW FUTURE.
I TRUST THAT IN DIVINE TIMING THE ANGELS WILL BRING ME MY PERFECT SOUL MATE.
I HAVE FAITH IN GOD AND ALL HIS WISDOM AND LOVE.
I don't give time to my readings as there is no time in the spirit world, but I do dowsing which I do not take as being 100% accurate as I believe only in Divine timing we are meant to have what ever it is for us in our lives according to our chosen destiny.
Okay the next three years will be of significant changes for you, please use the rest of this year to heal, deal with any insecurities you may have, except what has happened not to hurt you but to open you up to what you are deserving of what you had was not for your highest of good just what suited him.
2017,2018,2019 are the years for you to make wiser choices, learn from any lessons, take that wisdom into the future with you so you can trust any further choices you make to be better and wiser for you especially where r/ships are concerned don't sell your self short to the first person who comes along, remember we have many people that will come into our lives and they aren't all meant to be r/ships they can be teachers, a catalyst, a friend, a mentor, romance yes, but still not necessarily a life time partner these are all the lessons we learn from r/ships we learn about ourselves and of others so it is important that we do understand why certain r/ships happen and in the way they happen and in the way they end the endings of some teach us there was nothing wrong with us we were just trying to love the wrong person.. but for the right lesson we needed to open us up to the truths of ourselves and what we need to fix about ourselves especially if we go onto a r/ship insecure about ourselves and willing to put up with anything because we believe we wont meet the right one or we will be alone which of course are false beliefs that come from our insecurities...
You are going to have the kind of love and happiness you deserve, so please have faith in what I was just given for you, but you do need to be stronger for yourself dig deep and find that inner strength you have for yourself you use it for others now its time to use it for yourself.
Stay out of any family issues that cause upsets that don't belong to you, the thing is with families is to let them battle it out between who ever is having the issues, you cant put right what others have to for themselves be it family or not.
some families will split over arguments and some will heal it just depends on what ever is meant to be for them.
I see you living to a whole new way of life other than what you have, I see you feeling lighter, happier, and more content that you can be the kind of person you want to be which is how we all should be any way not what others expect of us or expect to do for them.
I see many exciting new adventures for you so just enjoy your life to the fullest it goes too quick to waste it on things that don't matter.
You will be alright just know this and trust this don't spend too much over losing him be grateful he showed you his true colours other wise you would still just be doing for him and his kids without very much in return in the way that you deserve.
Bless you for being there for his kids all that kindness will be rewarded.
You will be blown away with the kind of person who will come into your life for your highest of good he will love you so much and show it in many ways and he will spoil you (as you deserve)
I see lovely times together doing what you both have in common you will feel different when the one who is meant to be with you meets you a kind person, down to earth and very understanding ;)
Hope that has cheered you up.