Hi apanda and OscarHi
My husband and I got a new dog yesterday - Oscar. I think he is a little unsure about being in a new place with 2 new people that he doesn't know.
I was just wondering if someone can please tell me if he knows that this is now is permanent home and if he is going to be ok settling in here. I am a little worried about leaving him alone during the day when we both go back to work (my husband is on holidays at the moment).
His date of birth is 27/10/2010
I have attached a photo
Hi JazzHi apanda and Oscar
I feel Oscar is quite independant and quite a proud boy he has a personality of his own that you will get to know and he will get to know your personalities also.
I feel Oscar will be quite happy to have his space as his own, but he will look for things to do to amuse himself while you are at work so think of some toys he will amuse himself with including treats hidden in things he has to find himself, and he will like you to play with him too when he feels like it
I feel he has a really different personality from any other pet you may have had he is a funny boy in lots of ways and to me from looking at the picture he looks mature somehow and i think he will get set in his ways with things you will get to know each others likes and dislikes and once that is sorted out it will be fine.
Hope that has helped i feel oscar may have a weird habit or some funny way of doing something?
anyway enjoy each other and have lots of good times together jazz.
Hi Apanda,I am just wondering if anyone can tell me why Oscar all of a sudden doesn't like going out the back door. He will go through it, if it is left open, and he will go through it if we are going outside and he is fine and happy once in the back yard, but he doesn't like going out the door at any other time.
It is a little frustrating because we need him to go out in the morning when we are going to work.
I know that he might think that we are leaving him - but we will always come back and I hope he realises this.
Can anyone help?
HI JazzHi Apanda,
How's Oscar doing?
The first thing that i was told by spirit was he feels shut out with that door , he is ok when it is open, like you said because he can come and go, and he is ok when he see's you both out the back through an open door, but when he cant see you and knows once that door is closed you are gone he feels shut out, poor baby, can you make a doggy door for him so he can get into part of the house so he wont feel so shut out, in time he will know you come home to him, and play with him in the yard that is his happy time with you, do you give him a treat before you leave and does he have lots of squeeky toys and things to play with?
anyway just some things to consider our doggies are like children in many ways and they are our babies i am nanna to my daughters doggies i love to see them and they love to see me,they love all the attention and tummy tickles they get from me and they know i always have a stash of treats for them, then i have to deal with my jealous cat who gives them filthy looks when ever they rock up for a visit lol or a sleep over
take care and you too oscar jazz.
Unfortunately I can't. I wouldn't know where to begin and I have no contact with my ex at all..It is sad that you had to part if you are still thinking of him a lot even although you have a new doggie now, and life perhaps you could make some inquiries to put your mind at ease about him.
Be reassured that any love, kindness and care given to our pets is never forgotten by them even if circumstances change they will never forget how much we loved them regardless of where they may be or who they are with they understand more than we know.
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