I dislike love spells. I dislike people who use them to bring a ex lover back. It is selfish. We ALL have 'Free Choice', which is a gift to each of us from God and quite frankly, if you love someone you let them use theirs. Besides that, controlling another human being not only creates some bad karma and is an absolute no-no, it offends God....and I am not about to do anything that will offend my Creator! I've already had enough bad karma in my life in the past. I have been told Davids wife is using candle work aka spell work to keep David coming back. At the moment she has been successful. But who knows how long that will last for. Boy is she in for some bad karma. My ex sister in law got her own bad karma back for using love spells and so will Davids wife. All in good time. Its hard to be patient. I'm a Aries. We Aries are not known for our patience.
Love and Light Denise
Hi Denise,
There is no love spell or magic that can make a person love you or stay with you, if a person decides to stay in a r/ship knowing they are not happy they do so through their own free will usually based of self insecurities, fear, fear of not being loved by another, fear of another threatening to self harm and carrying it, guilt, low self esteem etc all these emotions and more and they have not yet learned the lesson that r.ship is teaching them which is to stand in your own personal power as an individual, to own that power and honor our truth and stand in that truth when we allow ourselves to be strong and have faith in ourselves and in our future and know that being alone at times in our lives is how we need to be to reflect on what we need to do for ourselves to gain our own self confidence, self worth, strength, peace within ourselves, find happiness within ourselves, face our insecurities and work on them, give our selves time to heal, let go completely of any past hurts and forgive them and allow ourselves to move on into the future.
We need to really take a good look at why we chose to bring that person into our lives and how we were feeling emotionally at the time were we insecure? were we lonely? were we hoping for another to put our lives right for us if we were unhappy..were we just sexually attracted to that person?... were we being fearful of not finding anyone so anyone was there at the time?
What ever the reason David chose this person to come into his life was for a reason of learning some valuable wisdom for himself and for his partner also to learn from her actions against another.
Some people like to believe they have power over another by using magic love spells to make another fall in love with them or stay with them that is totally ridiculous and so untrue a person stays because of wanting to or because they have so many emotional issues as above, they believe that person is going to put all their little trouble and life right and live happily ever after because they are too afraid to take a step into their own power and stand on their own two feet in life or in a r/ship that they know isnt right or happy for them or for their highest of good.
Some will learn, some wont...... we need to work on the fear of why we stay being bullied, being abused, not really being loved or treated as we should be...being blackmailed with threats if we try to leave.... before we can see the real truth of what is really going on with us and with another.
If we allow another to mistreat us that is not magic that is us allowing that to happen, we give too much power away to another when we do allow such treatment put upon us, that person then believes they are magic and not just a bully, a blackmailer, a user, an abuser, etc...they believe in their own sick minds they really are working a magic spell.
And the real reason is we have not learned yet from that experience until we have the big wake up call and the light goes on within.
When you can give yourself self worth and confidence and say enough is enough what am i doing to myself and why am i allowing another to treat me like this and you are strong enough to stand in your power and own and
when you find that strength and power to stand on your own two feet and look that person who is abusing you in the eye and say to them you have no power over me i am leaving that is when you have learned that lesson of no one has control over you but you.
That lets that person you were with know there is no magic spell or bullying, or bashings, or cheating, or blackmail, that can keep you in that situation with that person.
I learned that from my own personal experiences in marriages and r/ships.
To be free is wonderful to be able to be your own person is even better we all should be able to be our own person whether with someone or not it doesnt matter the right love gives us that feeling and this is what David will experience from his past lessons.
Some people will shut their hearts off to love because they just cant stand the thought of being hurt again, which is ashame because they are not giving themselves or the future a chance to bring them that happiness but it is through their own free will they choose to shut them selves away, happily others eventually will gain trust in love again and allow another to come into their lives what will be will be for us.
