Very well said mateIt's the bad relationships experiences along the way, that prepare you for the good one, when it comers along, - so that you will appreciate it!.
I as a child have been mentally and physicaly abused for years.
I believe we went through these experiences to develop and become the person we are today, and to be able to help and guide others.
e.g. Would you ask for help from a couseller who has had the same experience as you, or someone who hasn't.
I know it's unfortunate that we are the ones chosen to experience these bad things. But I don't think there is anyone out there who hasn't experienced anything bad in their life...or maybe not yet anyway.
Grace you now know from your experieces, you can support your children the best you can when the time comes. Without your bad experience, maybe your children would also suffer the same.
Without your bad experiences, perhaps you would become one of those insensitive parents that you grew up with, and your children would suffer for it.
So there is good to come from bad....
There's another old saying;
Tis better to have loved and lost - than never to have loved at all.
How will you know a good relationship, if you have no bad relationships experiences, against which to compare it?.
Yin and Yang - you cannot have one without the other.
It's the bad relationships experiences along the way, that prepare you for the good one, when it comers along, - so that you will appreciate it!.
WE risk rejection in the hope of attaining love, that's the price we pay, for finding love - the risk of rejection.
If your not willing to pay the price - you cannot take the ride.
One of the traps to watch for - is falling time and again for the same type of loser that you eventually end up hating - I see women do it all the time - falling for the same type of loser over and over again - some women are just so tragic -- they do NOT learn from their mistakes.
Maybe when you know what you want you will actually find it.
I said that prayer for you - did you? Remember all it takes is two!
Hi Chris , sorry to bother you with my issues again . Hmm a couple of months ago , you told me that I might meet someone late this year . Does this still hold or have I messed things up and sent the wrong signals as usual to the universe ? Thanks.
Ofcourse you will find love. I'm feeling late this year, you will meet someone.
Yes I have decided not to second guess myself anymore . I'm 100% sure nothing is wrong with me now.lol. And I deserve a level headed guy not some weak/desperate/clingy guy . Perhaps I have too high standards . I don't know.No problem Grace, You are welcome to vent.
You have a right to pick and choose, we all do.
Yes there are those with pasts much worse than yourself with a love life...
These people have moved on and stopped fearing their past, or decided to take a chance and jump straight in again...
I'm sure when you find the right guy, you will jump straight in again also. Body's hormones can do that to you.
I'm single, how about we go for coffee
Hello again sweety.
This person is emotionaly unstable and the only way she feels like she can improve her life, is by doing what she does. it makes her feel good. She is trying to change deep seeded issues inside her, superficially.
Do not let her feed off your energy, i.e. do not pay attention to her.
She isn't happy being in her own skin, so she is trying to be like you, because you are Gods shining light, and she wants some of what you have. But she doesn't realise that peace and happiness comes from within.
Hope I'm making sense.
Keep shining Gods light & love from within you, and all will be well.
You are maturing physicaly and spiritually. Not fussing about the superficial crap.
You are becoming more comfortable in your own skin and with your own company.
You are, like me, in a sense part of this world, but not actually in it. And it is a good thing.
It's amazing what healing from your guides and angels does to you. Give them or God thanks, and that they continue to heal you.
Thanks a lot Chris , I tend to feel generally calmer and better emotionally when I'm by myself. I can't help feel overwhelmed when around some people.I do my best to keep interactions with my co-workers to a minimum possible. Really hope for better times where I feel more in control of my life. Will try to release that old anger which makes me feel pretty defensive at times...We are only human, so we are going to have our ups and downs.
Feeling irritated is natural around negative energy. I try to stay away from it.
I even keep away from people that I have nothing against, but for some reason the sound of their voice just does my head in.
There is always better times ahead. Believe in it, and you will manifest it.
try to release some of that old anger or resentment also, and eat healthier.
Thanks Chris I normally ground and shield when I go to work . I will also visualize that I am surrounded by a ball or barb wire as you suggested . I don't like being around her and don't even want to talk her except for work (when required) . I just hope she gets it . I will let you know if there are any changes.She will eventually get it. Just try to walk away from her energy, whenever you need to.
Try this for an exercise.... visualise you are surrounded by a ball of barb wire when you are at work, and anyone coming near you, get hurt by it.
Let me know if she comes near you less.
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