Work Issues

[redness23]

WOW! It was around 4 years ago when I sent a message and asked for advice. I came back today to see if the site was still online and you are still here doing great things for people after such a long time. I think that is super impressive and good of you.

I came back to the site because I have a pressing issue which I felt some sort of open advice would be very helpful.

I am Australian but live in Thailand. I am very busy with work and produce video content for some very high profile clients these days. Money over the last year has been better than ever in my life. But with that comes a price unfortunately. And it is the workload and at this moment, the main guy I work with who is from Germany. I don't mind working hard, this is fine, but I am at the stage I can hardly work any longer with this guy. He is my main source of income and very good with paying what is owed to me. But he is the rudest, most easily irritated, irrational, offensive and difficult person I have ever worked with. I am super struggling to continue this working relationship with him. He yells and screams, and wants to try and control my life whether he is here in Thailand for a visit or away in his own countries.

I am doing my absolute best to stick with it, the benefits financially are great, but I just don't know if I can continue. I don't want to get sick from the stress and I value health and my well being over money. But I have a very good life here and certainly do not want to lose it.

Just wondering if you see anything, have any sort of advice or an opinion on this matter? This would be so nice to hear from you and I would be so grateful.

Thanks you so much

Nathan

[jazz]

Hi Redness, those 4 years have gone so fast I will get back to you later okay blessings jazz.

[jazz]

Hi again redness,
I don't know if I can help you much here, its a matter of putting up a barrier around yourself with his person to not let his negative personality get to you if you are happy in your work and are doing well we stress our selves out by allowing it to get to us I have has some pretty crappy bosses in my time I grinned and bared it while looking for other work and something always came up for me....its not worth getting sick over money I agree you can only choose to ignore all the negativity and still work loving what you do and being financially secure or look for other work just as suitable but with a new boss I don't know why but what just popped in was he may not be your boss forever?? Try to separate his energy from yours ask Arch angel Michael to come in and protect you against any negative energies so that your energies can stay positive if his wont change. theres not really a lot I can say with this only what I have but I do see things getting less stressful for you so hang in there everything happens for a reason don't take on other peoples baggage it belongs to them not you.
let us know how you get on blessings Jazz.

[redness23]

Hey Jazz,

I posted a reply to you but the website was unhappy and I lost it.

Thanks heaps for your response. It is very much appreciated.

I have no idea why there are people that are determined to make life hard on themselves and everyone around them. I am sure everyone has had some sort of horrible or annoying boss or client or business partner before. But nothing does last forever and sometimes we just have to grit the teeth as you said and push through until the next stage in life. BLAH! Very tough at times.

You mentioned Arch Angel Michael. Thanks for reminding me of this. I got a tattoo years ago of him for this very reason. Some times just need to be reminded as day to day life can get away from you.

Again, thanks heaps for your words. I have found it comforting to read and helpful.

Thanks
RED

[jazz]

Hi Red,
Thankyou for your reply,
I would say this guy has emotional or personal problems that he takes out on others you do get people like that who unload on every one else but they don't want to take responsibility for their actions or do anything about fixing up their issues to make life easier for themselves they are hard nuts to crack lol.
Yes bring in Archangel Michael he is awesome he has been with me since I was a child..
A lot of guys have him as a symbol tattoo just to remind them he is there to help cut away any negative people and energy coming from them so that all you hear is blah blah blah but it wont affect you.
Just ground yourself before going to work and after and that will put up a barrier of positive energy around you and with Michaels help you wont let it affect you his problems belong to him not you he might even get fed up with himself one day hahaha...
anyway take care and I hope everything works out for you
blessings jazz.