Every time the walls have started to come down for him, he puts a stop to us sleeping together etc and distances himself from me completely. But then when we are drawn back together again (months or weeks later) it's like we've never had that time apart. It's like he is scared of feeling anything so he pushes me away, but something has always drawn us back together. It's frustrating.
You are in the same group of souls, so you are going to attract each other on a spiritual level.
apologies again Bekkles if this offends you, But I am going to be blunt and straight to the point again.
Monitor when he distances himself again. Is it after you two have been intimate?
Perhaps he comes back to you when his testosterone levels are up, and he needs a release?
Do not mistaken him distancing himself for fear of getting hurt.
The guy is having sex and being intimate with you, so he threw the fear card out the window on that one long ago.
Remember guys make love with their penis, not with their heart.
So if he feels like this towards you when he is having sex, then forget your dreams of settling down with him. it isn't going to work well for you.
The signs are there, but you are ignoring them. Like i said, its your path to take and learn from it.
You don't need a psychic to see whats going on here.
This is the same old story, since the age of man, of woman desperately clinging onto man.
Man only wants to fulfill his primal desires, but woman eventually wants more than sex.
next time it may be a good idea to keep sex out of it from the beginning. That way you will see the truth much earlier in the relationship.
Just my 2 cents worth.