Grab a pen and paper, title the left side "Pros" and the right side "Cons"
Make a list of the pros and cons of moving away, and another paper for staying.
I do understand how hard it is to afford to stay in a nice area and home.
Have you been looking for other jobs? start small, and keep finding a better job while your working. Just find a job that pays the bills first.
Have you thought about starting a home business, like selling on ebay etc.
Google business ideas for Moms.
Reverend Chris Roubis
My spirit guides:
Chief Sitting Bull, Chief White Eagle, Chief Oconostota, Chief Eagle Eyes, Chief Eagle Tomahawk. Chief White Tail. Chief Little Horn.