Hi again Sophie,
First of all I want you to do this for yourself because you need to and it will help clear the way for the right kind of r/ship on a soul level of love to come into your life.
Don't worry about what he is feeling or thinking it doesn't matter he is in the past now you have experienced what you were meant to with that person and he with you that is called a karmic learning lesson r/ship.
You wont move forward if you are focusing on him and putting out to the Universe is good I am glad you are doing that for yourself but again you will block any new energy coming in while you still worry about him.
Let that experience go now and take all the wisdom you have learned from that with you into the future, so you can then make better choices and decisions for yourself based from what you have gone through that hasn't been happy or loving for you.
Trust me we do learn (if we want to) as we go along life as to what we really want and what we don't want in a r/ship and there is no reason why you cant have the right kind of love and happiness in your life and you can be assured you will not miss out okay I cant make you believe it but I am asking you to trust it and have faith this is only what you are going through now it isn't the future that will start to get better once you allow your self to except what has happened, let it go with love, give thanks for what that experience has taught you and then start to heal and gain your self confidence and self worth back then step into your true power and own it.
Do not worry about every one else getting married and having babies that's where they are in their lives we all choose the partners we bring into our lives and you chose the one to have the experience with that you have just had so that part of your life was taken up with that experience..
Don't rely on crystals and things like that to bring you love it wont happen I can tell you that now, Divine timing brings to us all what we are mean to have in our lives the Universe and our Angels know when we have finished with karmic learning lessons(such as yours) and they know when it is time for us to receive a soul mate and they set that meeting up in Divine timing.
I will do some dowsing for you as there is no time in the spirit world, but I don't take it as being 100% accurate as I believe in Divine timing with everything , you may have admirer's before your soul mate comes in it all depends on what your chosen destiny is..
I know you feel left out now only because your hurting emotionally and I know what that is like myself so I understand why you feel that way but please don't dwell on it okay because I know there is much waiting up ahead for you and you are going to have the kind of happiness you are so deserving of you have a lot going for you so don't let yourself get too down.
2017 will see you in a different energy and more confident energy because you will feel in control and that is what you need for yourself take control of all situations when meeting new people, you will soon know who to put any trust into friendship first will be a good start for you get to know a person for their true self not just what you see on the surface.
I see a very smart guy here loads of personality but with good qualities that will blend in with yours he will be different to what you have experienced but spirit is telling me to tell you give him a chance he may be nervous at first because he will feel he is not good enough for you..
I see lots of going here and there doing lots of exciting things that you will both enjoy you will have it all I am told so please be patient and let the natural flow of life take you where you are meant to be don't be disheartened because you are on your own now you need this time to reflect on things, heal, be positive and be around positive people go out with good friends and just enjoy life because when you least expect it the right person will come into your life except invitations to go out if you feel yourself getting too down..
I hope that has helped you please don't upset your self any more over the last one he let you go now you must let him go so you can have the right one come into your life and remember happiness within starts with us we need to give that to ourselves along with confidence, having faith in ourselves and our lives, and giving ourselves more self worth.
R/ships will come as far as they are meant to for what ever reason they aren't there to hurt us personally we have the kind of r/ships we chose to learn from and they teach us a lot about ourselves and others If we want to learn, they teach us mainly what we need to do for ourselves that another cant then we know what mistakes we make when we go into a new r/ship and expect it to be the perfect one when we are full of insecurities, doubts, fears, emotional issues from past r/ship experiences.
No one is going to come into our lives and fix our problems just as we cant fix theirs that is why they are called karmic learning r/ships when we graduate from them and if it is meant to be for us then we are ready to receive on a soul mate level the right one for us and for both highest of good.
You have a lot to look forward to so now when you go to bed dream of that special man that is going to come into your life.