No one can tell you what is right or wrong when it comes to matters of the heart
We hold the answers to what we know is right or wrong for us, it is only our emotional discontentment, and confusion that blocks out
our soul truth of things and how to handle things for our highest of good and for the good of others.
Our Angels and Guides are always sending us their help and love through messages, numbers, songs, signs, dreams, books etc.
I have looked up your angel numbers and yes they are sending you many loving messages, when I see the word "fling" I see all the warning signs of a person needing to really do some soul searching for the Truth of their soul, not through confusing a fling for being the reality of life, flings come into our lives to give us a big wake up call
and the Angels are trying to tell you this.
Look for the truth within yourself not the fantasy of escaping a rocky r/ship because we all have them, some can be put right and grow, some will not go any further sadly that is the case for many but the truth sets us free from what isn't meant to be for us and allows both souls to move on to find what is right for them as individuals.
What did you learn from that fling?...get some paper, pen and go somewhere in nature or by the sea and ask your soul these questions... How was I feelings at the time of this fling?.. ...How did I feel emotionally after?... ...Where is he now?...Has this man given me anything positive about a future together?....Am I hoping that it will work out because I need something more than I have now in my love life???..Do I feel secure now in my life emotionally??? ask yourself what questions you feel you need to that will bring you to an honest answer in reality...because it is the honest answers that bring us to what and why we are confused or unhappy in our present r/ship and why it is important to sort our true feelings so we can work on separating fantasy from reality and clear all confusion so we can start to feel what we need to do for ourselves that no one else can in sorting out what we need to do in our present r/ship so that both souls can either get on with their r/ship or part if that is the case if you choose to so that both can be free to find happiness that was meant to be for them.
If you find you are not in love with your husband and staying for the sake of being comfortable then you are not being honest to yourself , your true feelings or your partner and you have children to consider too.
Being honest will bring you to what you are confused with now, and that is your true feelings you can only put things right through the truth not hoping things will be alright if you stay or live to the hope that the fling you had is going to be more, you have to put right first what is needed to be put right in your present r/ship before the future will bring you new experiences and a love that is right for you on a soul level ..
Please find some quiet space in nature or the near the ocean to clear your head of fantasy stuff and get in touch with how things really are now in the real world.
That may sound harsh I don't mean it to be but in reality it is what you need to do and in your soul you know what you need to do. When you can allow yourself to clear as much confusion as you can, you will receive and understand the messages the Angels are bringing to you and you will have a better understanding of why things have happened in the way they have and why you made the recent choices you have made it has all been for an awakening of your soul for your highest of good and for the good of the person you are with now.
The truth sets us free from confusion, hurts, doubt, unhappiness, and allows us to move forward into the future to receive new experiences new happiness and love, when we know we have done everything we can to make a r/ship work and we have been honest with our partner, kind and considerate of their feelings too but the love has gone completely from that r/ship, marriage etc, then we can move on without guilt knowing we did the best we could in that r/ship to make it work out.
You will be fine, just allow yourself to open up to your soul truth, you will feel better about everything
you will feel lighter , owning your truth and living to it is very powerful, it will allow you to have only what you feel is right for you, not what you live in hope for to happen for you in a confused, insecure state of mind,but knowing exactly how you want to live and who you want to be with to spend your life with or don't want to spend your life with, some souls choose to be free without partners enjoying life to the fullest not needing a partner or marriage to do that it just depends on what we have chosen for our destiny before we came here...
Hope that has helped.