Lazy is good! I'm a little that way myself.
It's just that sometimes psychics don't like people to "confuse the issue"... so I'll try to keep the info unconfusing.
I have a very strong connection with this man - the way we talk and laugh together is phenomenal, like nothing I've ever experienced before. But... well, sometimes it seems to me that he likes me more than a friend (to the extent that he "jokes" about me actually moving to Germany and marrying him!); and another time he will mention how he thought this woman was "stunning", or "beautiful", although he doesn't take up their offers to see them socially. He also carries a torch for someone from his past, who has been popping up in his dreams recently (crying, as if in trouble or need).
I can't figure out whether he does like me (I am appalling at reading signs) or whether I am a trusted friend he can have a joke with and use as a sounding board.
I do know he isn't a Player, or he'd be getting around more
He gets a lot of offers, but never takes advantage of things as the women aren't his type, as much as he appreciates them.
I myself am both backward about going forward, and convinced that my being 14 years older (although in good nick) would matter in the end.
Any insight would be very welcome.
Thanks Chris. tourmaline